My friend Bonnie reached out to me last week to see if I could help her figure out how to decorate her new classroom. She is switching roles from teaching middle school social studies to the middle school guidance counselor. Bonnie was nervous about the room having no windows and feeling claustrophobic.

We met at school last week to take a look. Here’s what the space looks like right now:

Inspiration for a Windowless Classroom - The Outside and In

Inspiration for a Windowless Classroom - The Outside and In

Yikes. Quite the challenge. Let’s start with the positive. The walls have just been painted that light turquoise color, and the new linoleum floor is a light gray. Bonnie likes the wall color so that is a good thing. The classroom is large. It will serve as a place for Bonnie to meet with students one-on-one, and in group settings.

Here’s what she had to say about her approach to working with her students and her goals with her new classroom:

First, I want them to know that I recognize them as individuals – with their own unique talents and gifts. Second, I want them to feel supported in their learning and daily activities in my classroom. And third, I want to create a super positive, fun and happy spot in their day when they’re with me.

Can you see why she is such a beloved teacher?! These students truly feel respected by Bonnie.

Coming Up with a Plan

When trying to come up with some ideas to make this classroom more welcoming for Bonnie and the students she serves, I started with the major factors to address. I usually like to start here because I see design as a way of solving problems and leveraging opportunities.

In the case of this room, the 3 biggest issues that I saw were:

  1. No texture. The vast amount of cement block and linoleum are flat and artificial. Never has there been a better case study for a lack of texture than this room. We can add texture with baskets, weathered wood, pillows, etc.
  2. No natural light. Because of the lack of windows…or a window, there are not trees, sunshine or breeze to look at. This room needs life added – big time.
  3. The color. The color per se is not a problem, it is just something that we will need to highly consider when bringing in any other colors. If you bring in anything that is bright, or even too much of a pastel, it could quickly turn into a kiddy space which I know she doesn’t want.

In addition to those factors, our two other challenges will be the existing furniture and…budget. The furniture was all being stored in a separate room. From what I could see, it is clunky, heavy and brown. Bonnie and I will be getting together in the next week or two to start playing around with the placement. At that point, we will get a better idea of what we are up against. As for budget, there really is none. Bonnie will be picking up some things on her own.

After facing the challenges straight on, my next step was to start coming up with ideas for Bonnie’s classroom. Brainstorming how we could make this a space that fits her needs and that her middle school students love.

Studio McGee Claybourne Project Office

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Bonnie texted me this image to give me an idea of an office she loves. Of course she would pick this gorgeous light-filled space from one of my favorite designers, Studio McGee. It’s super traditional and fresh at the same time. While it was tough to replicate the light in this room, I did think we could try to get the same amount of texture. Please note how much life the pops of greenery add to this home office. Not sure if we will be able to get one, I did find a desk similar to the inspiration image at a GREAT price in case Bonnie decides she wants to pass on the one currently slated for her classroom.

I compiled the products for the inspiration mostly from Target, with a few little things from World Market and Pier One sprinkled in. The reason for this is three-fold: 1) Target is local to us. It’s easy to pop in, grab a few things and go. 2) Sometimes students get you gift cards to awesome places like Target 🙂

Bonnie is not stuck to buying everything from one place. These boards are just to help her visualize the colors, textures and elements she can add to her space. So, if she happens upon something at a garage sale, on clearance at a different store or wherever, she can pick that up just the same. These boards can guide her in her choices.

Choice #1 – Textured Traditional Classroom

 

This mood board reflects a traditional style in neutral tones. Lots of grays and a dark indigo as a little bit of color. The colors are kept neutral to offset the brightness coming from the walls. You will see both mood boards include greenery because the room needs that touch of life.  Considering the room gets zero natural light, preserved boxwoods and faux plants will be her friends. The hooks are also on both boards. These will be crucial for student backpacks to go up on instead of the floor.

Choice #2 – Inviting Coastal Classroom

Option #2 is a little more coastal, less traditional than the first. The colors are a little brighter. There is still a lot of textural elements, like the chair, the throw, the burlap in the lamp shade, etc. The area rug comes in a blue version and this warmer version. I love the blue one, but we needed something to balance all of the blue we have in the walls. The little bits of rusty coral is perfect. Here is a closeup of the rug so you can see:

Rug Closeup

So there you have it. Two different looks with a lot in common. What I love is that Bonnie can mix and match from both if she would like. Most of the elements could easily be swapped.  Once I get feedback from Bonnie on which look she prefers, it will be easier to move forward on the furniture placement. I will keep you posted on how that goes!

Which one is your favorite? Do you prefer the more toned down neutral, or the brighter option?

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At the end of each week, I share the podcast episode I listened to that stood out among all the others. Here is this week’s selection for your listening pleasure!
Best Podcast This Week: Frame of Reference on Invisibilia
The best podcast I heard this week was “Frame of Reference” on NPR’s Invisibilia podcast. Invisibilia is about “the invisible forces that control human behavior – ideas, beliefs, assumptions and emotions.” It has the high quality content you would expect from NPR.
This week’s Invisibilia’s episode on “Frame of Reference” is all about the experiences and biology that affect how we see the world around us. Frame of reference is the lens in which you see the world. To illustrate the power that frame of reference plays in our lives, the podcast episode dives into three compelling stories. I will try my best to tell you a little bit about the stories without spilling all the details that made it such a riveting listen.

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African American Troop Morale During World War II

The podcast opens up with an interview of a social psychologist who was tasked with studying troop morale during WWII. Specifically, black troops. And to be even more specific, black troops in the South. The government was concerned about how they were faring during the hard times. The findings from the research were not what you would expect. And the reason for that had to do with the frame of reference of these black troops stationed in the South.

Best Podcast This Week: Frame of Reference on InvisibiliaThe Physician’s Story

The next story  was about about a woman named Kim. She is a physician who struggled terribly throughout her childhood and into her work life with social interaction. She had constant conflicts with other kids and was bullied because of her inability to relate.
Then one day Kim was researching Aspergers syndrome. While reading through the description, she realized that it was describing her to a tee. According to Kim, this came as a shocker for her, but it helped to explain so much of the pain she had experienced throughout her life. It was almost a relief.
Until, the day she signed up for an experimental trial. A trial that involved placing special magnets on her head to see the effects. And the effects happened. For a short-lived moment, she was able to see herself as others saw her. I will let you listen to the episode to hear how she reacted to stepping into this world of clarity for a moment.
This story was so fascinating, I had my boys listen to it with me. Kim’s recounting of the suffering she went through at the hands of being so different was good for them to hear. You could hear a pin drop in the car when we listened together.
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Hasan Minhaj

To close out the episode, they interviewed the comedian Hasan Minhaj. You may know who he is, but I don’t watch late night TV, so I had no idea. Apparently he is on The Daily Show.  Hasan’s parents came over from India during a very violent time in the country’s history. That experience affected his father’s frame of reference tremendously. And in turn, it affected Hasan’s upbringing. Because anything he went through growing up was nothing when compared to what his dad thought was real tragedy. Although you could tell it was not an easy for him, Hasan talks about it in such a funny way you are cracking up the whole time.

Listen to the full episode of Invisibilia HERE and let me know what you think!

Today I want to introduce you to 3 blogger homes (and their owners) that I love. Blogs are a constant source of education and inspiration for me. They also serve as a source of community for like-minded souls. Maybe you know these three already, but if you don’t, you will be in for a treat. Let’s get started!

House Seven
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3 Blogger Homes I Want to Move Into - The Outside & In Blog

Isn’t this home so serene? Filled with whites, natural woods and linens, Anissa has created a light-filled, airy space for her family. Her blog, House Seven, is always a treat to read. She clearly is gifted at styling and every time she posts to the blog or her Instagram feed, it makes me happy. Her superpower is editing. She clearly knows that less is more.

For the sake of transparency, I should tell you that Anissa and her family actually don’t live here anymore.  They are currently in the process of downsizing to a much smaller home. They recently made the decision to live a simpler life with less. They bought a much smaller home and are currently in an apartment until they can move in. In a world where everyone seems to want more rooms than they have people in their family, it is refreshing to see people coming to the conclusion that less stuff leaves more room for the important things in your life. In Anissa’s words:

Peace. It was all about peace. Peace for our family.
And it was about the feeling of having less. Less things. Less bills. Less everything to make more of something. That something is our lives and we wanted to free ourselves of the stuff to make more room for the memories we could create by not having so much stuff to take care of.

Their current apartment, although temporary, has already been transformed into a beautiful home for their family of five. The new (old) home they will soon move into will be no exception, I’m sure. Anissa’s gift for transforming any space is in her blood and it is how she manifests her creativity. Anissa’s journey has shown me how simplifying life and still crafting a beautiful space don’t have to contradict each other.

Visit Anissa online HERE and follow her on Instagram HERE.

House Tweaking

3 Blogger Homes I Want to Move Into - The Outside & In Blog

3 Blogger Homes I Want to Move Into - The Outside & In Blog

3 Blogger Homes I Want to Move Into - The Outside & In Blog

Modern. Neutral. Masculine. Dana has made a livable gorgeous space for her family. Dana is the author of House Tweaking, another blog that I read regularly. I love that she describes her blog content as “modest Midwest living”. Modest conveys an approachability, without feeling cheap. I would say that it is an apt description for her home.

Similar to Anissa, Dana made the decision to quit her uninspiring (but well-paying) job, then downsized for the sake of happiness. Maybe it’s these values that draw me to them. In fact, I just went to her “About” page to make sure her name was Dana (I always just think of her as House Tweaking) and her words blew me away.

We ditched our McMansion in exchange for a smaller dilapidated 1950’s ranch complete with termite trails in the original shag carpeting. We deemed it The Underdog and spent the next three years tearing down walls, vaulting ceilings, laying wood floors, installing an IKEA kitchen, updating bathrooms, painting, organizing and decorating. It’s not our dream house but, rather, the house in which to pursue our dreams. Since downsizing we’ve come to value right-sized living, less > more, quality > quantity and experiences > things. Although I will forever be tempted to add a new pillow or repaint a wall 😉

Amen to that!

Visit Dana online HERE and follow her on Instagram HERE.

Chris Loves Julia

Master Bedroom Chris Loves Julia

3 Blogger Homes I Want to Move Into - The Outside & In Blog

3 Blogger Homes I Want to Move Into - The Outside & In Blog

Chris and Julia’s house is a modern, earthy dream.  I love their color choices and how boldly they jump into their projects. Their current house is being transformed, room by room and documented on their blog, Chris Loves Julia. This talented duo pretty much do all the renovation work themselves and then document everything so we can learn along with them. Julia heads up the design, and Chris does the construction. This kitchen renovation they just finished completely blew my mind.

To top it off, Chris and Julia have recently launched a podcast. One of my favorite blogs in podcast form? Sign me up! I have been enjoying the episodes and putting their voices and personalities with their faces. On a recent episode, they talked about their preference of learning by doing. That really struck a chord with me.

Visit Chris and Julia online HERE and follow them on Instagram HERE.

Beyond their incredible talent, I think I am drawn to these three blogs because of their values. In the case of Dana and Anissa, downsizing for the sake of carving more room in their lives to follow their passions. For Chris and Julia, it’s their outlook and being “open to whatever comes next.” Their examples inspire me to keep going on this journey called blogging. I can see it is been a great source of growth and learning for them.

Summer Progress Report - The Outside & In

Art time on the kitchen table

Ask anyone with kids in school, and they will have a lot to say about summer vacation. Summertime is such a relief from the pressures of getting up early, packing lunches and doing homework. Most parents and kids alike are happy to take a breather from all that. On the other hand, there seems to be a lot of real or made-up pressure to have a “fun” summer. Having the kids home for 2 1/2 months can be stressful if the goal is to have a summer worthy of talking about. I have found that turning away from the pressures of what a summer “should” be and just focusing on what is right for our family has been the answer.

Simplicity and white space is our goal. I have learned the hard way that over-scheduling ourselves and rushing around makes time go by too fast. After the school year pace, I practically want to dig my heels in during summer and dare it to go fast. When I think back on my childhood, I remember feeling like summer lasted forever. A big part of that I believe is due to having a lot unstructured time, and even (heaven forbid), time to be bored.

A few things we really enjoy from a largely unscheduled summer are slow mornings where no one rushes to do anything. Mornings are also when the boys spend about 45 minutes of academic time. Just a little math and reading to keep the cobwebs from forming 🙂 This time allows me to notice things about my kids that I may not have picked up on during busier times. Struggles with certain concepts, etc. I can then take some time to reflect on different approaches.

Summer Progress Report - The Outside & In

Slow mornings

Summer Progress Report - The Outside & In Blog

Reading time

Before I make it sound like we are living in totally unstructured summertime bliss, we do have a few tricks up our sleeve for not driving each other crazy. Because let’s get real…all that time together can be breeding ground for conflicts. And mess. So instead of nothing planned, we run more along the lines of an unstructured structure. Before they can watch any TV, they have to make their beds, eat breakfast and have completed their academic time. We usually have one outing or planned activity per day. That might be something like going bowling, meeting up with friends, going to the bookstore, or visiting grandparents.

To help brainstorm ideas for our daily activities, we brought back to life our Summer “To Do” List. The Summer “To Do” List is up on the chalkboard wall in our garage where we see it constantly. It is a good reminder of all the wonderful things about our summer – past and still to come. Before I create the list, I ask each family member to tell me 2 or 3 things they are looking forward to, and then make sure to include them. Some are specific outings and some are general. I also like to include very simple things on there, like “board games” “puzzles”, and “card games.” Including those activities on our summer wall seems to elevate the activity.

Summer Progress Report - The Outside & In Blog

Our Summer To Do List

While leaving a lot of white space on the calendar has been good for our family, we do have some planned activities sprinkled throughout the summer. We scheduled 3 weeklong day camps. For their ages and temperaments, this seems to be their sweet spot. We also planned “cousin time” for this summer. My sister and her family recently moved to Florida, so we were able to do a swap, having our boys visit them for a weekend, and then hosting my nephew for a weekend.

As for travel, beyond our trip to California, there is not much scheduled. Maybe a few day trips or spontaneous weekend getaways. The more travel we have on the books, the faster the weeks seem to fly.

One thing that was a huge highlight of our summer last year was playing games at the park by our house. Every other week or so, the dads in the neighborhood host an outdoor game for the neighborhood kids. Like most good things, it’s a very simple thing that makes a big difference. It’s the stuff memories are made of for sure. They have brought the tradition back this year, and have even stepped up their game as far as making the games a little wetter and wilder. So far, the kids have enjoyed a water balloon war and slip n’ slide kickball.

Summer Progress Report - The Outside & In Blog

Slip ‘n Slide Kickball

For myself, I am carving out time each day to create in some way. That could be writing, photography, graphic design or styling. I usually take some time early in the morning, and then again in the late afternoon. I think it’s good for my kids to see me have interests and passions outside of parenting.

We have one month to go until the start of school. I am hoping we can continue to keep our pace slow and our aspirations simple.

How do you prefer your summers to feel? Have you found an approach that suits your family?

I recently finished reading “Smarter Faster Better” by Charles Duhigg. Duhigg is also the author of “The Power of Habit” which I reviewed HERE. “Power of Habit” rocked my world in my awareness of how habits run our lives. Even though it was not on my 2016 reading list, as soon as I saw the cover for “Smarter Faster Better“, I was intrigued. To top it off, Charles Duhigg was the special guest on The James Altucher Show podcast recently, which was the tipping point for me. I immediately ordered the book and dove in.

Smarter Faster Better by Charles Duhigg

The premise (and subtitle) of “Smarter Faster Better” is how to be more productive in life and business. As a general topic, it may not sound super exciting, but Duhigg’s approach is so different. He really dives into the research behind each of the 8 concepts that make up the book. On top of that, he scouts the most captivating stories to make the research findings come to life. Duhigg shares how the success of his first book caused the stress in his work and personal life that led him to this book’s premise. According to Duhigg:

“Productivity, put simply, is the name we give our attempts to figure out the best uses of our energy, intellect, and time as we try to seize the most meaningful rewards with the least wasted effort. It’s a process of learning how to succeed with less stress and struggle. It’s about getting things done without sacrificing everything we care about along the way.”

Who cannot relate to that? It certainly is something I need to work on. In “Smarter Faster Better”, Duhigg tackles productivity from the perspective of the individual, as well as teams and organizations. He addresses new ways we can approach our priorities so we can be more satisfied with how we learn, work and create.

The following are the subjects he tackles in each chapter. Each of these have 2 or 3 captivating real-life stories that are fun to read just because they are so interesting on their own. I will not steal the book’s thunder by telling you the stories here. But please believe me when I tell you they are the reason Duhigg’s work is so good.

8 Ways to be Smarter Faster Better

  • Motivation
  • Teams 
  • Focus 
  • Setting Goals
  • Managing Others
  • Decision Making 
  • Innovation
  • Absorbing Data

The Bottom Line

There are certain authors that are worth reading regardless of the subject matter. In my book, Charles Duhigg is one of them. I would highly recommend “Smarter Faster Better” to anyone who works on a team or leads an organization. If you have a big project you will be working on (either alone or with others) this content will be super helpful!

In addition to team members and team leaders, I also think “Smarter Faster Better” would be an enjoyable read to anyone who likes to read behind-the-scenes tidbits from people from all walks of life. Beyond the productivity lessons learned, the book is interesting with just the stories alone!

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