The fall catalogs are rolling in and I am loving checking out the new pieces at my favorite retailers. I have so much fun seeing what is new and current in the world of home decor. In honor of the all the recent additions, I thought I would feature some of my fall favorites in the next few weeks. West Elm is first. They keep getting better with each season. They are bringing mid-century back in a beautiful way. That chandelier is gorgeous and I am dreaming of it in my bedroom. My house is severely lacking in side tables which is why I am featuring two. And that planter? Yeah … I already got it 🙂

 

 

 

 

I recently finished the book, Creative Schools by Ken Robinson & Lou Aronica. You may be familiar with Ken Robinson’s famous TED Talk, “Do schools kill creativity?” It’s my all-time favorite TED Talk. And I am not alone in this. It is one of the all-time highest ranking TED Talk ever. In fact, let me say that if you have not seen it, please skip reading this post and go watch it right now. You will not regret it and I will not be offended that you ditched this post.

skr_creative_schools_3d-coverNow, back to the book for those of you who are still here 🙂 It is hard to know where to begin with the topic because it is just spot-on all over the place! Robinson makes a strong point about the negative impact that standardized testing is having on education. He also walks us through the reasons why we are making a mistake leaving out the arts and creativity in our schools.

Personally, I have always felt passionately disappointed at the second tier treatment the arts and physical education receive in our current academic system.  For the past 13 years, my  job has always involved working with the ‘special area’ teachers as they are called. It seems to me that those subjects are like the sprinkles on top of a cupcake. We like them there. They look pretty.  But the other subjects are the real cake. From what I have noticed, parents rarely have any idea the names of these teachers, much less an understanding of the expected learning outcomes from these subjects. In addition, budget cuts always affect these areas first. It’s bad press to get rid of them altogether, but no one is holding the subjects in high regard. Why is that?

Robinson puts into words all the hunches that have nagged at me but that I never could pin down. His credibility as a thought-leader in the world of education is solid. He has a PhD in Education and was a professor of education in England for many years. He has written several books on this topic. He has worked with governments in Europe and Asia, as well as national and state education systems. Needless to say, I really admire the work he is doing around this topic. As he says:

Most national curricula are based on the idea of discrete subjects. In most systems there is a hierarchy to these subjects. At the top are literacy, mathematics and now STEM disciplines. Next come the humanities , including history, geography, and social studies. Because the standards movement emphasizes academic study, it places less value on practical disciplines like art, drama, dance, music, design and physical education and on “soft subjects” like communications and media studies, which are all thought to be non-academic.

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So what are we supposed to do? Make every student drop their math book and pick up an instrument? Absolutely not. Ken Robinson is NOT advocating for downgrading reading, writing and arithmetic. No one believes that a child without these important foundations will have an easy time in life. They are KEY! What he is advocating for is to give the arts, physical education and creative subjects the same importance. Because a child whose gifts lie in a creative inclination and not in the core three will leave school feeling like a failure based on the importance weighted on the rest. If the message is that your “specials” are just fluff, then how can that not impact your sense of self?

“In my view, a balanced curriculum should give equal status and resources to the following: the arts, humanities, lanaguage arts, mathematics, physical education and science. ….the right balance of these disciplines allows schools to cater to the personal strengths and interests of students as individuals.”

Haven’t you seen the focus and attention of a child doing something they love? Heck, even adults in their element. You are ready to learn and absorb everything about your beloved topic of choice. When I am directing my own learning, I cannot get enough. I am constantly reading books, listening to podcasts or taking online courses on areas that I am naturally drawn to. Here’s what Robinson says about the natural decline in curiosity that often happens as children go through the schooling gauntlet.

Learning is the process of acquiring new knowledge and skills. Human beings are highly curious learning organisms. From the moment they’re born, young children have a voracious appetite for learning. For too many, that appetite starts to dull as they go through school. Keeping it alive is the key to transforming education.

The natural gap starts to happen as the kids who are not as “good” at school begin to increasingly identify themselves as less smart:

As the story goes, the smart kids go to college. The others may leave school early and look for a job or apply for a vocational course to learn a trade of some sort. Either way, they have taken a step down the status ladder in education. This academic/vocational caste system is one of the most corrosive problems in education.

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Robinson also really focuses on the detrimental impact of the standardization and the testing movement that has swept many countries.

The standards movement is not achieving the objectives it has set for itself. Meanwhile, it is having catastrophic consequences on student engagement and teacher morale.

The problem with conformity in education is that people are not standardized to begin with…By conformity I mean the institutional tendency in education to judge students by a single standard of ability and to treat those who don’t meet it as “less able” or “disabled” — as deviations from the norm.

…education is not an industrial process at all; it is an organic one. Education is about living people, not innanimate things.”

Once he lays out the data, history and facts as to why the current model isn’t working in the way we hoped it would, he spends quite a bit of time diving into school systems and countries doing it right. He then lays out the vision for what could be a move in the right direction. He also outlines the natural ecosystem of responsibilities:

..the focus of education has to be on creating the conditions in which students will want and be able to learn.

…the role of the teacher is to facilitate the students’ learning.

..the role of the principal is to create the conditions in their schools in which teachers can fulfill their roles.

..the role of policymakers is to create conditions….in which principals and schools can fulfill these responsibilities.

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Robinson lays out 8 core competencies that schools should facilitate if they are really going to help students succeed in their lives. Instead of saying that one subject is better than the others, how do we weave these 8 core competencies throughout all of the subjects? The subject will be what engages the student…the competencies are what they will take with them after the class is over:

Curiosity – the ability to ask questions and explore how the world works

Creativity – the ability to generate new ideas and apply them in practice.

Criticism – the ability to analyze information and ideas and to form reasoned arguments and judgements.

Communication – the ability to express thoughts and feelings clearly and confidently in a range of media and forms.

Collaboration – the ability to work constructively with others.

Compassion – the ability to empathize with others and to act accordingly

Composure – the ability to connect with the inner life of feelings and develop a sense of personal harmony and balance.

Citizenship – the ability to engage constructively with society and to participate in the processes that sustain it.

What are your thoughts on these competencies? What kind of impact could  you see creative schools having on the future of education?

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It really seems like yesterday that I was writing THIS POST about my intentions for the summer. And somehow the boys are back in school with one week under their belt. (Sigh)…

Reflecting on what my hopes and expectations were for this summer, I can see I was able to accomplish a lot of what I was looking for. Not all, but a lot. What I am happiest about is that we did achieve a “slowing down” and being more present in our days. It really helped to have all that time off from work to be able to enjoy the days and mornings with the boys. It was really wonderful. But I also think consciously setting my intentions at the start of the summer was key.

Besides setting my intentions, I also gave myself some strategies to try and follow. Some stuck more than others. I did keep up my schedule of getting up early to enjoy my quiet time followed by exercise, but I did not get as much of the writing time as I had hoped. Need to figure out another tactic for that. Another thing we did not do an a regular basis was the group 20 minute quiet reading time daily. However, the boys did get bitten by a vicious “Calvin and Hobbes” bug, which had them reading those books all day, every day. Not exactly the chapter books I was hoping for, but, oh well!

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Speaking of books, Ben pretty much devoured Harry Potter Audiobooks #3, 4, 5, 6, 7 this summer. If you are familiar with the Harry Potter series, you can imagine how many hours of listening that was. A lot. We started reading them, but we couldn’t keep up with his demand to listen to more and more. We threw in the towel after reading books #1 and #2 and just checked out the audiobooks for the rest from the library. He was listening to anywhere from 2 to 5 hours a day! And if we needed to discipline him, it usually involved taking away Harry Potter listening time. Weird, but it worked.

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Every other Thursday evening, we got together with friends at the park to play a different old-school game. The dads chose the game, coordinated everything and led the kids. It was better than we could have hoped for. The kids really loved playing with the dads, and to spend 2+ hours outside playing outside on a summer night was heavenly.

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Another fun highlight for us was chicken-sitting. Our neighbors up the road went out of town on 3 different occasions and they asked us to take care of the chickens for them. More than eating delicious fresh eggs and being surrogate parents to this little flock, my favorite part of the experience was riding our bikes in the morning to go check on our “girls”. We would pass all the early morning walkers and joggers and say “good morning” as we headed to chicken duty. I distinctly remember on our rides back home with the wind in our faces how content we were and that I wanted to remember those simple moments for a long time to come.

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As planned, we did not do any big trips this summer. Mainly just day trips. In July, we did go on a little road trip aligned with a 3-day meeting I had in Atlanta for work. We drove up to Atlanta, where we visited the High Museum of Art. There was a Mo Willems exhibit that I really wanted the kids to see. And who’s kidding who, I wanted to see it too. What a beautiful museum The High is! The Mo Willems exhibit was perfect. The boys loved the colors and seeing their favorite characters all around. The next day, they left to go on a 3-night camping adventure in the North Carolina mountains and I stayed behind in Atlanta. Brian said the 4-hour drive was a breeze and no one talked as they pretty much just listened to Harry Potter the whole way (I told you it was insane). They had such a blast during their stay. They met up with our favorite camping family and the kids pretty much jumped in streams and played in the water the whole time. On the way back, they picked me up from Atlanta, where we headed to Stone Mountain for two nights. Stone Mountain Park was a fun place to reconnect with my boys.

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The extra time in our summer allowed for lots of creative time together, and for that I am so grateful. I do not have the patience or attention-span for complicated crafts and such, so we usually just paint or draw. Sometimes we paint canvases, sometimes rocks, sometimes toilet paper rolls. I have found that sitting with them to paint, draw or color is always time well-spent. First, I notice that they are more apt to sit still. Secondly, they are more apt to open up during this time. I hear about a lot more from them than when I ask specific questions. And lastly, they do not usually bicker when we do this which is always pleasant. I see the effect of these special times in their ideas and artistic expression daily.

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The boys are now back in school. Homework, nightly baths and lunch-making is back on, and the school-year train has officially left the station. A part of me is having a hard time accepting this reality. I am not a very good school-year mom. I am forgetful and always feel like I am scrambling. I thought I would take a stab at some intentions for our coming school year:

To be present and seek moments of joy within the daily routines of the school year.

 

To carve out space and breathing room in our days so that we can have time to appreciate what we have.

The intentions seem short and simple but I know from experience I am going to have to fight tooth and nail to keep them in focus. I guess I want to feel more like I am in the driver’s seat and less like the passenger in a runaway train 😉

So with that, I say good-bye to the summer of 2015…a good one for sure.

Today I wanted to share a recent family movie night selection that got four thumbs-up from our household. The movie is called “A LEGO Brickumentary”. We recently saw it for rent on iTunes and decided to check it out. So glad we did…it was a great choice for family watching.

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The documentary takes you through the history and future of LEGO. It was interesting from so many perspectives and kept all of us entertained. Most of all, the movie was inspiring. Inspiring to see how tragedies or failures can eventually lead to new discoveries and success. Inspiring to see how a seemingly simple piece of plastic can be the building block for infinite possibilities. And inspiring to see how a company can rely on its users to lead the way. Here is a peek at the trailer to give you a visual:

I also loved getting a glimpse at the whole AFOL community. What in the world is AFOL, you ask? AFOL stands for “Adult Fans of Lego”. Their passion for this brand is infectious and so much fun to watch. Their mega convention, called BrickCon, is a showcase of genius works created with LEGO pieces by these superfans. Which brings me to LEGO as an art form. The film features an artist who uses LEGO pieces as his medium. His work was incredible. He recreated famous works of art using  LEGO for a Times Square exhibit that would have been so cool to see in person.

Our kids have been into LEGO for several years now, but I have to admit, my affinity towards them was starting to wane. After watching the documentary, it occurred to me that it is probably due to the pre-determined set models. By that I mean the sets that tell you exactly what you are going to build. Like a Batmobile, or a Police Station, etc. Our boys have plowed through dozens of sets like that through the years. And while I do love the concentration it entails to put them together, the short lifespan of play is kind of a downer.  I often see the sets disassembled and pretty much useless because the pieces are so customized for that particular set, that you can’t do much else with them. But watching the LEGO Brickumentary this weekend has reinvigorated the passion for LEGO for all of us around here.

After the movie was over, it was time for bed, but Ben asked if we could get up early the next morning to start building, and I said sure. So the next morning, we all came together and started building LEGOs together. We actually purchased a LEGO Classic set that I have had my eye on for a while. I have been wanting to pick one of these up for a while now, but the movie was the perfect impetus to get it. It is chock-full of simple pieces that can create whatever your imagination creates. We worked together to build a house which included a shower, and even a garden. If you are having the same issues with LEGOs as we were, I encourage you to try these. They have not stopped building since then. In fact, I also think these would be a great teacher gift to keep in the classroom.

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I know beyond just the LEGO specifics, my kids came away from this documentary with many valuable lessons. Have you watched any great documentaries lately?

It’s time for another tour! Today I have the pleasure of bringing you a family home that blends old and new seamlessly. Sarah has done such a wonderful job creating an inviting atmosphere. Having inherited many family pieces and antiques, I really love the way she has freshened them up by mixing in fresh colors and textures. And with 3 young children and a huge dog, it is a house that is lived in, not just looked at. Sarah has not done this overnight. They have lived in this house for 7 years, and like most of us, she feels like she still has a ton to do. Taking a moment to reflect on how much progress you have made in 7 years is worth it and a good takeaway. I hope you enjoy taking a peek inside this classic and comfortable space as much as I enjoyed visiting.

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Who lives here and how long have you been here? My husband, Fred, and our three children, Ansley, Ava and Tripp. We also have a sweet Golden Retriever named Sadie. We have lived here for a little over 7 years.

You’re home has so much character. What do you think it says about you? Fred and I love to entertain. We wanted to create a home that was warm and inviting. We wanted to make it a place where our friends and family can come in, sit down, relax and stay for awhile.

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Do you have an approach for furnishing and decorating? I love color. I like things that are unexpected. I love fun prints and patterns. I like to incorporate those characteristics throughout my house.

How would you describe your aesthetic/style? We have a mix of old and new. I don’t really know if I have a style because I kind of think of my house like I view fashion. Eclectic. Just depends on my mood and what interests me at the moment. If I like something, I go for it.

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Where do you find home inspiration and ideas? Shannon Roth and Cass Retz (local interior decor shop owners) have helped me tremendously. Fred has a lot of family pieces that have been passed down from generation to generation. I wanted to keep a lot of those items but to make the overall atmosphere fresh and updated. They were able to keep all of the old pieces but to make the overall appearance fresh and updated. I also love Pinterest. It is a great place to find fresh, new ideas.

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Which room in your home do you enjoy the most? We love our den. A lot of memories have been made there the last five years with our children. One of our favorite things to do is snuggle up on the couch every night and talk about our day.

What do you splurge on in your home? Where have you saved? I have spent a lot of money on draperies and artwork. I think those two items really finish off and complete a space. I have saved on a few pieces of furniture by painting them to give them an updated look.

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Has having three young kids changed the way you decorate? If so, how? Ironically, I have done more decorating now that I have kids than I have in the past. I guess I want to make a home that my kids are proud of. I want to make it a safe, warm inviting place for their friends to visit. Our house is well lived in to say the least.

In your opinion, what is the one easy thing most people can do to make their space feel more cohesive? Paint! I think it is a game changer!

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How do you hope your kids will remember their home when they are older? I want my kids to remember our home as a fun, comfortable environment where years and years of memories were created.

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Thank you, Sarah, for being so open to sharing your home with us! If you would like to check out more home tours, you can do so HERE.