The Best 3 Books I Read in 2017

Every year, I take a moment to reflect on my favorite 3 books from the prior year and to share them here. I love looking back on what I’ve read and thinking about new perspectives and ideas I’ve been exposed to through what I chose.

Below is the list of what I read in 2017. There are several titles that were on my 2017 reading list, but I also went rogue for a quite of 2017.

Although I have been mostly drawn to self-development and business non-fiction in recent years, the 2017 selections ended up a bit more eclectic than usual. You’ll easily spot my summer obsession with all things revolutionary history in there (thank you, Hamilton). As well as a visit to an old love, historical fiction, and even a straight-up novel.

2017 Books

There are so many good ones on here, right?! When deciding which 3 books from the above list stuck out to me the most, I decided to judge it by how hard it was to put down.

Surprisingly, the selections from Brene Brown, Tim Ferriss and Gretchen Rubin (my heroes) didn’t make the top 3 list – this year. I thoroughly enjoyed their books, but…there were 3 books that came out of left field and landed on the top this year.

Here are my three favorites from 2017:

Best 3 Books I Read in 2017

America’s First Daughter – Because of my obsession with Hamilton, I went down a complete rabbit hole of all things Revolutionary American History for about a third of 2017. As evidenced by the list above, I read quite a few history books (both fiction and non-fiction). Anything set around the birth of our nation, I wanted to read it. My favorite of these was probably “America’s First Daughter”, a historical fiction novel about Thomas Jefferson’s daughter, which was totally engrossing. Although his daughter is the protagonist of the story,  the novel is very much about Jefferson’s life and even relationship with Sally Hemings (his slave), which I was super conflicted about. I promise you will enjoy this even if you are not a revolutionary history nut like me. It’s a darn good story on its own.

A Man Called Ove – This one caught me COMPLETELY by surprise. As you can see by my 2017 reading list, and all the year’s prior, I have not been reading too much straight up fiction lately. At first, it was the cover of the book that caught my attention. Then I happened to notice that it had 15,000+ 5-star reviews on Amazon, which is rare. When I read the back cover, I liked that the protagonist was an older gentleman, which seemed different. So I picked it up. I am so glad I did, because was awesome. I was alternating between laughing out loud on one page, and then tearing up on the next page. The writing was simple and straightforward, yet the story was nuanced and not gimmicky. If I had to recommend one book right now to pretty much anyone, this is it.

A Year of Living Biblically – A.J. Jacobs is a humorist/author who is known for doing weird life experiments, then writing about it. In this book, Jacobs, a non-practicing Jewish man living in New York, decides to go back to his roots. Way back. To the Old Testament. Throughout the experiment, he tries out Old Testament laws and traditions in modern day New York City. Can you even imagine?!? He clearly has a high tolerance for being stared at. Reading about some of the customs he adopts for his experiments are cringeworthy and hilarious. What makes this an even better book is that he does come to some heartfelt realizations about the role of religion in his life. Great summer reading!

Have you read any of these? What were your favorites from last year? Please share!

In case you are looking for more recommendations:

Best 3 Books I Read in 2016

Best 3 Books I read in 2015

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My Process for Choosing an Airbnb Listing

Have you ever stayed at an Airbnb property?

We just got back from a super fun spring break getaway which included a lovely stay at THIS Airbnb property in Decatur. We chose to stay at this particular Airbnb cottage because not only was it a super cute little cottage, it also came with the chance to hang out with some friendly chickens and alpacas during our stay. The boys will definitely tell you that it was one of the highlights of our spring break road trip.

Whenever I post about our  Airbnb stays, I always get questions. Today I thought I would break down some of the reasons we love it and my process for finding some really great listings so far.

The photos below are all phone shots from some of the different homes from the past few years. So please excuse the quality I had to dig through three years worth of iPhone shots to find them 🙂

My Process for Choosing an Airbnb Listing

Ben getting to know one of the friendly faces at the Airbnb Decatur Alpaca Cottage.

My Process for Choosing an Airbnb Listing

Eggs from the chickens at the Decatur Alpaca Cottage.

What is so special about using Airbnb?

If you are unfamiliar with Airbnb, it is similar to a vacation rental. You are staying in a home that is privately owned, but available for rent. If you are considering a vacation rental, I think Airbnb is the way to go. Their website interface is extremely user friendly. The hosts take extreme pride in their properties and in getting excellent reviews. The travelers are on their best behavior too, because they get reviewed as well.

Whenever I have travel plans, I always compare to see if it would be a better option to stay at a hotel versus an Airbnb property. Sometimes, a hotel makes more sense. Especially if you plan on only being somewhere for just one or two nights. Other times you cannot beat having a kitchen and living space to spread out in. Or maybe some fresh-hatched eggs from the chickens on the property 🙂

My Process for Choosing an Airbnb Listing

Charleston Airbnb for our 2017 neighbor getaway

So far, I’ve stayed in Airbnb properties in New York City, San Francisco, Boston, Savannah, Charleston, Nashville and Atlanta. Knock on wood here, but they have all been highly positive experiences. That may not always be the case, but for now, I have a process that seems to work in reducing the risk of staying in an unknown someone’s rental property.

My Process for Choosing an Airbnb Listing

Cute little Airbnb cottage in Nashville for spring break last year

My Process for Choosing an Airbnb Rental

  1. Do an initial search of properties in the city. When you have scheduled your next vacation or getaway, take a look through the Airbnb listings in the city without adding the filters. This will give you an idea of what kind of properties are there and just how many good ones are out there. For example, in my neighborhood in our small town, the pickings are slim.
  2. Create a “Saved” folder with your City. The next thing I do is create a folder for that particular trip in my “Saved” listings. This kind of like using Pinterest. Except it is on Airbnb. Every time you come across a listing you like, you add it to your list for that trip. Later on, when it is time to decide, you can go back you your list and pick from all the ones you liked instead of wading through all the options.
  3. Keep an eye out for well-photographed listings. Now, one of the things I think makes a BIG difference when knowing which listing to click on is the photography. Although this might seem like a shallow way to pick where to stay, here’s why I do it: if someone’s photos of their listing are dark and fuzzy, I cannot get a clear image of the place. Red flag. Also, if they don’t understand how important good photography is, they are probably not the most detail-oriented hosts.

    My Process for Choosing an Airbnb Listing

    Atlanta Airbnb for our 2018 neighbor getaway

  4. Read the reviews carefully. Reviews are critical to the Airbnb process. Properties benefit from getting reviews, and you get reviewed as user too! Once I have narrowed down my listing options to a half dozen or so, I then get in and start reading the reviews. You’ll notice that many listings have 4.5-5 stars for every category. For that reason, I don’t rely on the stars too much. I read the reviews and look for specific details. If 20 people are raving about the great selection of restaurants and shops around, then I can feel good about the location. If words like “immaculate” and “pristine” are used to describe the property, then I can feel good I won’t be surprised with dingy dish towels.
  5. Know someone in that city? Ask them to vouch for the location. At this point, if I know someone who lives in the city where I am looking, I will send them a link to the Airbnb listings and ask for their feedback on location. I just did this with our upcoming vacation to Seattle. My friend steered me away from two listings that were not as convenient to the exploring the sights as some of the others we were considering.
  6. Send a message to the host to ask them anything still left unanswered. Once I have decided on the property we want to book, I will usually send a message to the host before booking. I will let them know who is coming and what type of vacation we will be on. For example, when we take our annual neighbor getaway in the winter, we are specifically looking for places that are bike-friendly and close to lots of good restaurants. This is the host’s opportunity to confirm or give us a heads up about anything that may not meet our expectations. Although you may be wondering why they would be upfront about something negative, it all comes down to the reviews later. They get reviewed on the accuracy of the description and they know the guests can expose anything that was “oversold”.
My Process for Choosing an Airbnb Listing

Savannah Airbnb for our 2016 neighbor getaway

I mentioned above how important the photos are in the Airbnb process. I can quickly scan a page and knock out 90% of the listings just by their cover photos.

What I look for in the Airbnb Listing photos:

  1. Light and bright. Lots of light lets me know I will be able to see everything is nice and clean.
  2. Solid surface flooring. I prefer to find places with hardwood or tile flooring so I don’t have to wonder if the carpet is clean.
  3. White sheets and towels. I like bedding and towels to be mostly white. A simple coverlet in a color is okay, but nothing with stuffing in it. Remember all those Dateline episodes about the hotel comforters?! I need to know stuff is getting washed.My Process for Choosing an Airbnb Listing
  4. Only the essentials – and no more. I like there to be enough furniture, but not more than that. Doesn’t have to be fancy, but it has to be just right for the space. Same goes for the display surfaces and drawers, etc.  Too many things start feeling cluttered and not well-thought out.
  5. Stylish. I know this sounds shallow again, but this is important. Similar to the photography, if the host has a good eye, they probably pay attention to detail in other areas. The particular style itself, is not important. Just that there is one.
My Process for Choosing an Airbnb Listing

Boston Airbnb for a quick visit to family

Tips on using the Airbnb website:

Where Airbnb stands head and shoulders above other vacation rental sites is their website. The user experience is excellent. And they have covered every base when it comes to making you and the host feel safe about the whole rental transaction. You communicate with your host directly through Airbnb’s messaging platform. And the payment is all taken care of through the site, so you never have to worry about that during your stay. Below are a few  of the tips I have to maximize all their site has to offer.

  1. Start your search as early as possible. More time = more options. I like to start browsing as early as possible. The trip to Seattle I mentioned earlier is more than 4 months away and I already have a shortlist of 5 Airbnb properties I am eyeing. I know that the longer I wait to book, the higher my chances of losing my options.
  2. Take advantage of the filters. Using the Airbnb filters is a HUGE help when narrowing down on your ideal listing. Selecting your travel dates will filter out any properties that are not available on the dates you are looking at.  Selecting the number beds, bedrooms or bathrooms also helps narrow it down. I would always recommend casting the net wide by looking at all the listings first. Then, go ahead and start adding the filters.
  3. Use the map feature. Airbnb has a great tool where you can search available listings in a city by scrolling on a map of that city. You can check out the listings in the downtown area, then compare with listings in a different part of town. This is especially handy if you know which sites you will be hitting up during your stay.
  4. Review the cancellation policy for the listing before booking. Each Airbnb host has a different cancellation policy that is clearly stated. Some are pretty strict, others super lenient. I remember once we booked an Airbnb in Nashville, and then changed our travel plans. Since we were within the generous cancellation window, it was no sweat. I just let the host know and they cancelled the reservation, no questions asked or fees deducted.

    My Process for Choosing an Airbnb Listing

    Quiet street outside our San Francisco Airbnb

When we choose NOT to use Airbnb

While staying at an Airbnb property is something I always look into, that doesn’t mean we always end up staying in an Airbnb property. About half the time we travel we end up in hotels. Here’s the rundown of when we choose not to use Airbnb for our travel accommodations:

  1. If I don’t find any listings that look nice. I’d rather risk a generic Hilton Garden Inn than stay in a questionable Airbnb.
  2. If we are only staying 1-2 nights. Sometimes hotels are more economical if you are not staying long. This is because Airbnb properties have a flat cleaning and service fee added to the total. For example, if a hotel room is $200/night and an Airbnb is $100/night, you will probably be better off with the hotel room because the cleaning fee might be $50 and the service fee is $50. But since it is a one-time fee, once you go past two nights, you start saving more with the Airbnb listing. Make sense?
  3. If we found a great deal in a fun hotel. If I can get a great rate at a boutique hotel property with excellent reviews, then I might jump on that over an Airbnb property. We love the Kimpton hotel line for their excellent customer service, design and quirky details. So if I find a good one in the city we are traveling to, that is where we will stay. There is something nice about having someone make your bed and clean your bathroom daily, right?
My Process for Choosing an Airbnb Listing

Decatur Airbnb from our family road trip this spring break.

I know I just went into a lot of detail up there, but the reality is I love the hunt for the perfect Airbnb for the specific trip or occasion. I enjoy the process and then finally coming up with “the one”. The reward is a feeling of experiencing a place from a resident’s perspective versus a tourist’s. A fun “home away from home” to add to the memories.

It may not be for everyone, but if you have been itching to try the Airbnb experience for your next vacation, CLICK HERE for my referral link. You will get a $40 travel credit on your first stay.

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Why I Changed My Mind About Crossfit - The Outside and In

After many years of declaring Crossfit wasn’t for me, I begrudgingly agreed to try it out for 3 months last May. Seven months later, I am still attending classes almost daily. If you think I’m going to tell you that Crossfit is going to help you lose 20 pounds, get 6-pack abs or allow you to leap tall building in single bound, you won’t find that here. You can trip over that type of information anywhere you look these days. I’m going to tell you my personal experience beyond that.

A little history…

Over the past few years I have been dealing with some nagging adrenal fatigue/autoimmune/thyroid symptoms. I’m not going to get into details here, but suffice to say I have been extremely focused on doing what I can to get past these issues. Cutting out stress, eating clean, removing toxins and doing whatever it takes to heal.

Exercise is something that was the last frontier for me to address. Mainly because I didn’t think I needed to.

When it comes to exercise, I’ve been doing some variation pretty much daily for the past 25+ years. I tend to enjoy fast-paced, flying-high, sweatfests. I love Shaun T’s Insanity program, all kinds of bootcamps, running and high intensity training stuff.

When your adrenals are taxed however, most experts recommend cutting waaay back on exercise. But what if exercise is something that brings you joy (which it was for me)? The two months prior to starting Crossfit I actually stopped doing anything but walking and yoga. But man I missed my daily movement so much!

It was at this point that Brian recommended (for the 100th time) that I give Crossfit a try. I thought, “What the heck? It’s got to be better than doing nothing.”

My hesitation with Crossfit

I’ve been familiar with Crossfit for a long time. A high school friend of ours who served in the military shared it with Brian probably 10+ years ago. Brian was doing the daily workouts in our neighbor’s garage before there were any Crossfit gyms in our town. Whenever I would look at the prescribed workouts, they looked horrible. When I say horrible, I mean that the movements and exercises all seemed like nothing I would ever be able to even do, so what is the point? Things like pull ups, snatches, ring dips, burpees. Not only where they foreign movements, they were foreign words. AMRAP, Metcon, EMOMs…what?! I didn’t want any part of that.

Another thing that turned me off was the stereotype of Crossfitters. I got the impression if  you drank the Koolaid, you had to walk around all beefy and ready kick butt at all times.

Despite all of my reservations, when Brian recommended I try Crossfit out last May, I finally agreed. Itching to dive back into something physically active, I decided try it just for the summer. Knowing I was going to hate it, I made a big deal of getting it in writing at the gym that I could go back to a non-Crossfit membership as soon as my 3-month trial was over.

The first few months

When I started, I hated it just like I had prepared myself for. These weird exercises I couldn’t do. The lack of keeping my heart rate up for an hour like I was used to. Am I even going to be in shape when I stop?

And these people who all seemed so happy to be here. Annoying.

As I mentioned earlier, exercise has always been part of my daily habit so I was going every day. Slowly but surely, after the first month or so, I started to hate it a little less.

At our gym, the class starts with a good warm-up, then we move on to a weight training or skill component, followed by a metcon challenge. Metcon is basically just short for metabolic conditioning. This is the part of the workout that will get your heart rate up, but not usually longer than 20-30 minutes, which in my case is key.

During the second and third month, I started to feel less awkward with some of the weightlifting – some! At the end of my self-imposed 3 month trial, I decided to stick with it a little longer. Maybe it wasn’t so bad.

Now it’s been 7 months and I have had some revelations as to why switching to Crossfit has been a very good thing for me during this season of life. I’ve been feeling really good the past couple of months. And while I won’t say it is all because of Crossfit, I definitely think it played a role.

Here’s what worked for me:

Being the overanalyzer that I am, there are some key differences that Crossfit made for me. And those are:

  • Variety – I love that every day is a completely new and different workout. Every. Single Day. Our coach usually posts the workout on a special app the evening before. It’s like unwrapping a present. What will it be? Will it surprise me? Will it be something I hate (like farmer carries)? Or something I love (like situps)? No matter what it ends up being, I end up going. Because if I hate it, I probably need to work on it to grow. And if it is something I love, then let’s go!
  • Challenge – Crossfit challenges me every day. And I don’t mean in the physical sense (although it does that too). Nothing is ever straight forward. There is always a twist or an element that makes it seem impossible. Think back on a time that you have conquered or even stepped up to a challenge. How did you feel afterwards? That’s the feeling you leave with every day with Crossfit.
  • Less taxing – This probably sounds really strange. Especially after going on about how challenging Crossfit is and all those insane movements. However, since I had been doing high intensity for so long, it took a lot of cardio for me to get fatigued or even feel it. Probably too much. With Crossfit, you are able to scale every and any movement to your ability. And since there are so many different variations, it always seems fresh.
  • Modeling for my kids – Like most of you, there are so many things I want to teach my kids. I want them to learn to not be afraid of failure. I want them to work hard. To follow their passions. To have growth mindsets. And so much more. But one thing I know for sure is that you can tell them to do everything you can think of. And they will end up learning what you do versus what you say. Crossfit has been a beautiful vehicle for so many life lessons I want them to pick up on. First, they see me going every morning. Being physically active throughout your life is important – check. Doing things to take care of yourself is important – check. When I come home and they are heading out for school, they hear Brian ask me how it went. They hear my disappointing results days, my good days and everything in between. Today, I came home and told them I came in last in my class. But I was smiling when I said it and they know I will be back tomorrow to try again. Modeling growth mindset – check.
  • Connecting with Brian – Brian and I stopped working out together a long time ago. First, because I was kind of a bossy workout partner. Also because we gravitated towards different styles of exercise. With Crossfit, I go at 6am and he goes at 12pm, which is perfect. We can experience the same thing, just not at the same time 🙂 And then, we have something fun to talk about that does not involve our kids. I like that they hear us talk about having fun. I don’t want them to think being an adult is all work and no play, you know?
  • Being coached – Do you remember a time in your life that you have had a coach or a teacher that pushed you further than you thought you could? My guess is you have, and that you think fondly of that time. For me that was my high school basketball coaches (don’t laugh) and my masters swim coach. And now my Crossfit coaches. You see, we are all wired for growth. A good coach will do that for you. Our coaches are insanely talented athletes. But it is their passion and commitment to help us reach our potential that stand out above everything else.
  • The people – Okay, those people that I totally stereotyped? You guessed it. They are also super nice individuals. Each and every one is ridiculously supportive and encouraging.  My 6am peeps are fast becoming friends (whether they like it or not). I guess that is what happens when you spend 5 hours a week together. Just when I needed a reminder that stereotyping an entire group of people is never a good idea…lesson learned.

The one thing that has made all the difference:

Of all the things that surprised me during this experience, there is ONE major deficit that Crossfit filled for me above all others. Something that has nothing to do with heart rate, max effort, or a specific exercise…

Bringing play back into my life. 

As we turn the corner into adulthood, things get so serious. When is the last time you played? And just had some flat out fun? Apparently it had been too long for me. Imagine the impact of scheduling laughter, games and camaraderie before to do lists, work and drudgery would have on your overall health. Well, now I have it scheduled on my calendar every weekday morning. And I credit it to improving my health.

A few parting words of encouragement

As a new year begins, odds are that you have made some resolutions and set some goals around your health. We’re always cutting stuff out. Gluten. Dairy. Sugar. Alcohol. But what if you look for fun stuff to add versus bad stuff to remove? What if you looked at change from the perspective of wanting to do things versus having to do them?

I encourage you to look at you approach to physical activity and make sure it’s working for you. It doesn’t have to be Crossfit. It could be swimming. Or that barre class that you love. Whatever that “fun” thing is for you. But make sure you prioritize it like your life depends on it.

Because it kind of does.

Photo credit: AJ Ravay

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First Post of 2018 - Let's Catch Up!Happy New Year! Although I have not actually hit “Publish” in a while, I feel like I’ve written about 18 posts in my head since the last one. However, the posts seem to be getting stuck in my head and not actually getting written.

My problem is I tend to have so much to say about topics I’m passionate about, that I’m having a hard time finding enough time to write everything down. So then I write nothing. This tendency to write the “all-encompassing” post on every topic is preventing me from writing anything. Ugh.

So in the spirit of not letting perfect be the enemy of the good I’m pushing myself to write more imperfect posts in 2018.

Please excuse the randomness of the following updates but please know this is a “baby step” for me. Here we go!

Podcasts:

In addition to the ones I told you about a couple of months ago on THIS post, I have recently subscribed to 2 new podcasts that I am obsessed with.

The first one is Selfie. No, not that kind of selfie. More like self-care. The podcast is the perfect mix of light-hearted banter about lifestyle stuff (like hair, skincare, holiday wishlists) and deeper dives into interesting behavioral topics. When a new episode comes up on my podcast queue, it trumps all my other favorites.

Right now, they are really digging into the Enneagram personality framework. Are you familiar with it? I took the test and apparently I am a #1. Do you know what a #1 is all about!? Let’s just say that it explains why I am my own biggest obstacle in getting anything done.

First Post of 2018 - Let's Catch Up!

In addition to Selfie, my other new podcast discovery is “By the Book”. Tell me if this doesn’t sound like so much fun?…The hosts of the program, Kristen Meinzer and Jolenta Greenburg, pick a self-improvement book (think “French Women Don’t Get Fat”) and dedicate themselves to following it by the letter for 2 weeks. They record a podcast episode sharing their experiences and revelations during the experiment. Then, they record a second episode afterwards reflecting on what aspects of the experiment worked and which didn’t. As an avid non-fiction reader, this is right up my alley.

First Post of 2018 - Let's Catch Up!

Clothes:

Remember THIS post from when I attempted a summer capsule wardrobe? Although I don’t do an official capsule wardrobe anymore, I do try to keep a very limited amount of items in my closet. I do it so I don’t waste time wondering what to wear every day and also because it forces me to really think about what I need before pulling the trigger on any item.

A pair of high-rise jeans in a lighter wash has been on my list for a while now. I finally got a chance to try THESE on last weekend and they were winners. Next on my list to purchase will be THESE shoes. I have the sandal version and wore them all summer and fall.

First Post of 2018 - Let's Catch Up!

Home Decor:

I probably haven’t mentioned on here that I am doing a bit of home decor freelance work these days. That is something I hope to share with you more in 2018.

One of the projects I am working on is a redo of a beach condo in Crescent Beach. I went for a few days to work on it after Christmas and made some good progress. And, I finally got to use THIS IKEA pendant that I have been eyeing for a long time. Can you believe the price?!? It makes me so happy to see it in this dining area. Stay tuned for hopefully a detailed “after” post soon!

First Post of 2018 - Let's Catch Up!

Minimalism Game:

Remember the Minimalism Game I posted about last year? I ended up playing two rounds of it and unloading 1,000+ items from my house. Towards the end of this year I started feeling bogged down by clutter creeping back in. So I’m playing again this January. Today is Day 6! I can tell last year made a big difference because I am not finding quite as much.

If you are interested in playing, all you need to do is read the rules, grab a friend and get started. Somehow the most mundane task becomes fun when it is turned into a game.

First Post of 2018 - Let's Catch Up!

Movies:

I don’t go to the movies much these days, but I did manage to see two over the holiday break. Lucky for me, they were both excellent. We watched “Disney’s Coco and “The Greatest Showman. Have you seen either of them? Gave them both A+’s. But I must say, my heart is still soaring after “The Greatest Showman”. The soundtrack has been on repeat over here since we saw it.

So, what have you been up to lately? Have you read or listened to anything interesting? Share with me and let me know if there is anything you’d like me to dive more into this year 🙂 Thank you for letting me share in this little imperfect corner of the internet with you!

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Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

In yesterday’s post I outlined why we chose to stay in the Sacred Valley as our primary home base for visiting Machu Picchu and all the other sites in this area. Today I will go into more detail about our visit to Machu Picchu and some of the other sites we visited.

Day 1: Fly into Cusco, drive straight to Tambo Del Inka in Urubamba

In my opinion, one of the most important details to consider when heading to Peru’s Sacred Valley region is the altitude. Altitude sickness is a real thing.

As I mentioned yesterday, your flight will land in Cusco. The altitude there is 11,000+ feet above sea level. If you are planning a trip to this area, I would definitely recommend leaving a buffer day to acclimate. Another precautionary step is leaving Cusco and heading into the Valley. Which is what we did. Our hotel in Urubamba was at about 9,500 feet, which was much better.

Not knowing if anyone would be feeling sick when we got there, we did not plan anything on the day we arrived. Other than settling into our hotel rooms and relaxing. The previous 3 days had been non-stop for the boys, and they really needed a break. They watched a movie on the iPad, went swimming in the hotel pool, and checked out the game room.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

The only place we did go is a local restaurant, PaCa PaCa, for a late lunch. Thank goodness for my aunt who knew all the good places to eat in this little town. The food was delicious. And the bohemian vibe was right up our alley.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Weary and hungry before lunch at PaCa PaCa

Day 2: Maras, Moray and Chincheros

Our first stop on our second day was Maras, an area famous for its salt ponds. The water comes from an underground spring. Once the flow is cut off and the water evaporates, what is left is this mineral rich salt.

A dozen or so families from this community run and harvest salt from the platforms you can see below. It was really cool to see the people raking it up and filling their big bags with this salt.

Our guide, who I will tell you more about later, encouraged us to dip our hand in the stream and let it dry out. What remained was a salty powder. The boys loved getting their hands in the stream and licking off the salt.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Dipping our hands in the salty water. As soon as it dried, you had a salty powder coating your hands.

Our next stop after Maras was the Incan archaeological site, Moray. Moray is a perfect example of what gifted farmers the Incas were.

Moray has several of these terraced precise circles. The one below has been restored beautifully, and the others are in the process of being restored. If you are wondering who dug the hole, it was actually a meteor!I R

The Incas used the existing crater as a head start to creating this agricultural marvel. The terraces are spaced in a way that each level is 4 degrees different than the next. So they would base which crops they planted on each terrace based on the temperatures needed. Crazy, huh?

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Chincheros was our last stop of the day – Brian’s favorite of the trip. Of all the places you will visit in the Sacred Valley, this is where you will be at the highest altitude – over 12,000 feet above sea level. The day we visited, a storm rolled in as we arrived at the main square.

The buildings were a marriage between the Incan structures and the Spanish who conquered them. If you look at the stones at the bottom, that is Incan. The white on top, Spanish. Even the cathedral was like that. I guess the conquistadors recognized good engineering when they saw it.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Walking through the streets of Chincheros. Feeling the altitude.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

The colonial cathedral in Chincheros

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Behind the cathedral, more of the Incas’ terraced farmlands.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Heading back to the car before the storm rolled in

Our last stop in Chincheros was a textile workshop. Here we got to see how they transform unrefined alpaca wool into the beautiful colorful textiles Peru is famous for.  All using natural plants for their unique colors.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Using a natural detergent to clean the wool

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Day 3: Machu Picchu

Finally. On the third day it was time to hit Machu Picchu. It’s kind of an ordeal to get there, so as I mentioned before, we left it up to the hotel to take care of most of the details. I didn’t want to miss something and be the reason we didn’t get in.

First of all, when you purchase your admission tickets, you have to choose what time of day you will be visiting – morning or afternoon. I guess they are trying to manage the crowds a bit better. We chose the morning time slot, which allowed us to have access until noon.

We got picked up from Tambo del Inka at 5am. The driver took us to the Ollantaytambo train station about 30 minutes away. There is actually a train station on the Tambo del Inka property, which would have been super convenient. But…its schedule didn’t have an early morning departure. So we took the 6:10 am train from Ollantaytambo instead to our destination in Aquas Calientes.

The train ride is INCREDIBLE. For about an hour and a half, you are weaving through mountains and out of this world scenery. That is definitely a highlight of the Machu Picchu experience in my opinion. One I even remember from 15 years ago when Brian and I were here last.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Leaving the train station in Aquas Calientes

From the Aguas Calientes train station we needed to get on one of the many green buses headed up the mountain to Machu Picchu. We were prepared for a long line to get on the buses, but there was no line. By 8am, we were at the entrance of Machu Picchu.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Max at the entrance of Machu Picchu, waiting to meet up with our guide

Up at the entrance, we met up with our pre-arranged guide, Patricio.  One of the ways that they are protecting the ruins is by requiring admittance with a guide. You are basically following a path that has a beginning and an end along with your guide. Sure, you can stop, take a little detour, etc. But you don’t want to go against the flow of the traffic.

For the next two hours, he walked us around the famous Incan ruins. Most people think that Machu Picchu is at a super high altitude because of the clouds. Not really. At least not in comparison to Cusco and Chincheros. You’re only at around 8,000 feet above sea level here. The clouds are more a result of MP being at the edge of the Peruvian rainforest.

Can you wrap your head around the fact that the Incas created this city with no metal instruments and without the wheel?! It’s just crazy to think about. How did they get everything up there? Look at all they built with no mortar. It really is as jaw-dropping as it looks.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Machu Picchu: so how crowded was it?

Going in, we were prepared for Walt Disney World type crowds. You see, last year when we were in the Peruvian rainforest, we met a couple who had just come from MP and they told us how crowded it was. I’m glad I was mentally prepared, because there were a lot of people. But not as bad as I had feared.

We did get there early though. So if you make plans to go to Machu Picchu, I would try to be at the entrance by 8am. It seemed to be a lot more crowded when we were exiting around 11am.

Another good move I feel like we made was having pre-purchased lunch at the Sanctuary Lodge. The Sanctuary Lodge Hotel is the only hotel located next to the Machu Picchu ruins. If you can shell out the $1,000+/night to stay there, I cannot think of a more magical experience. Clearly, we did not.

But, we did have tickets to eat their delicious lunch buffet though. Having woken up at 4:15am and barely eaten much, lunch as we left the ruins at 11am was perfect. We ate slowly and meandered out to catch a bus headed back down the mountain.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Machu Picchu: Day Visit or Hike the Inca Trail?

If you have ever looked into visiting Machu Picchu, you probably know that you have an alternate  option to get there: hiking the Inca Trail. These guided 3 to 5 day hikes are supposed to be incredible. You hike in the gorgeous scenery you see from the train ride I told you about earlier. On the last day of your hike, you wake up pre-dawn to arrive at Machu Picchu’s Sun Gate as the sun is rising. Magical from what I hear.

Although we have been to Machu Picchu twice already, we have not yet done the Inca Trail. We felt like our kids were just not there yet this time. Overall, they are comfortable hiking and camping, but not sure they could keep up with 3 days’ worth. Happily anyway 🙂

If you are going solo or your kids are teenagers or older, my advice is definitely do the Inca Trail if you can! Once in a lifetime experience for sure.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Day 4: Hike in Yucay, Lunch at the Hacienda Huayoccari, Pisac Market

Our fourth day in the Sacred Valley was probably my favorite. When planning our activities for each day, my aunt Pierina had thrown out  possibly doing this hike from the village of Yucay that she had done a few years earlier. The destination? Some pre-Incan cave drawings that looked like this:

We thought that it would be a fun change of pace for us and the kids. So we headed out on our trek that morning.

For some reason, I thought this would be a leisurely walk on a flat trail. And it was…at the beginning. We were surrounded by farmlands on both sides as we walked along a mountain stream. Not one tourist or visitor ever crossed our path. The only people we saw were a few farmers here and there. It was heavenly.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Until it got hard. The flat terrain started to slope steeply as soon as we headed into the mountains. And pretty soon our leisurely stroll got intense.  And from that point, we never saw a soul. Except for the mule pictured below walking by himself down the trail. And his owners trailing behind him.

You might notice in these pictures Brian is cajoling the kids into not giving up. There was a lot of stopping for rest at this point.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

At every turn, my aunt thought we were so close to the pre-Incan drawings. And then nothing. Here you can start seeing how steep it started getting. And rocky.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

After 2 hours of intense hiking at a high altitude, we decided to head back. Somehow, Max and Brian got lost. They think we got lost. Regardless, we finally all made it back in one piece. Tired and hungry.

After it was over, we all agreed what we had just experienced was Type II fun on the fun scale:

Miserable while it’s happening, but fun in retrospect. It usually begins with the best intentions, and then things get carried away.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Good thing we were hungry, because the next stop was the Hacienda Huayoccari. This place was so cool. Still owned by the same family, this home/restaurant/museum was tucked high up a mountain. Thank goodness our guide’s car was 4 wheel drive because it was like 5 miles going up a steep dirt road to get here. But it was definitely worth it!

If you are in the Sacred Valley, you should definitely make plans to eat here. Make sure you have cash though. They do not accept credit cards, as we regrettably found out the hard way.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Views from the garden at Huayoccari

Our last stop of the day was the town of Pisac. Pisac is know for its outdoor market. There are dozens of stalls set up in the center of town filled with artisan goods to entice all the tourists. We got there towards the end of the day, so there were not too many other people there. The boys used their spending money to pick up a few things.

After a full day, we were ready to head back to our hotel and jump into the jacuzzi.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Day 5: Leave Urubamba and spend day in Cusco

On our fifth day, we enjoyed our last breakfast together at Tambo del Inka with my aunt, and headed back to Cusco. She went to the airport, and we checked into our hotel. Our flight was scheduled for early the next morning, so we took the opportunity to walk around and explore the city.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

One recommendation I had found online was Cusco’s ChocoMuseo. The rave reviews on TripAdvisor for the chocolate-making classes intrigued us enough to sign up. Thankfully, we did because I cannot remember a time we have had so much fun together.

We laughed so hard we cried. Our teacher was insanely funny – I wish I could remember his name! Surprisingly, we actually learned a whole lot about the process of making chocolate. All this to say, if you are in Cusco, take the “Bean to Bar” workshop!

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

How We Got Around

I should probably mention that although Tambo del Inka had a very good trip planning agency located on-site, we only used them for our day trip to Machu Picchu. For the other days, my aunt had a super handy contact for a personal driver who took us everywhere. Plus, he also served as our guide everywhere we went.

Although it doesn’t sound like it would be, going this route was way more reasonably priced compared to using the hotel’s service. If I would have known he could also have come to Machu Picchu with us, I would have done it. Probably would have saved a lot there too.

Our guide, Jose Luis (pictured below), was extremely knowledgeable on pretty much anything and everything we wanted to know. From Incan history to cultural issues of today, he covered everything with us. He also spoke great English. Email me for his contact info if you are heading to this area of Peru any time soon.

Our Family's Visit to Machu Picchu and More - The Outside and In

Our driver and guide to the Sacred Valley, Jose Luis

As you might be able to tell, we loved every minute of our time in the Sacred Valley. Machu Picchu was awesome, but there is so much more to appreciate in the region. And the frosting on the cake? No time difference. So no jet lag to deal with.

If you want to go somewhere that feels and looks like you are in a storybook, look into visiting Peru!

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